Having the knowledge to attract women is the one of the most crucial skill that a man can have. There is no 'one size fits all' as different women will have different sets of qualities to look for in a man, and yours may not necessarily match the types of women you like. Likewise, men who are successful with women do not attract just one particular type of women. They did however, attract more than enough so they can just move on to the next person when they hit a dead end.

You can't go right to a woman and ask her out for a date without some sort of introduction for her to get to know you better, unless you want to be rejected. Although a woman may like what she see in you, such as your looks scent and your smile, she will be held back by her primitive sense of danger as she doesn't even know that you exist minutes ago. Plus, by being bold you set up a platform of failure for yourself, if not appearing to be desperate, and potentially make her feel scared and pushed. While you can't ask her out right away, you can put her at ease by striking up a friendly conversation with her.

It is not overrated when people tell you just how much the gift of the gab can help in the art of dating. With just a few minutes of talking you can get them to feel like they know you long enough to warrant a date. You'll want to appear confident and casual during this conversation, not tense, desperate or pushy or she can see through it instantly.

Be sure that you practice and perfect your speaking so in the actual conversation you can focus on her replies rather than how you sound yourself. This is because it is crucial to listen to what she is telling you and respond accordingly so she will feel that the two of you are communicating well. In order to make her feel special, you can compliment her on something that is particular on her, be it the earrings she is wearing, her easy going laughter or her glittering eyes. You just have to observe her for a while for these qualities before approaching her. Be honest though - surely you can find something you genuinely like about her to compliment on.

However, you must be limiting your compliments away from topics sensitive to women, such as body size, shape and weight. Certainly, your compliments should not be sexually related as well, as this will make her uncomfortable and raise her guards against you.

The best bet is to compliment a women on the first thing about them that got your attention to eventually approach her. While it is safe to compliment her on her eyes and smile, she has probably heard it before many times, especially if she is good looking. To come up with more original introduction, try complimenting her voice or her hands, at the same time avoiding body parts such as thigh, cheek, butt and breasts.

Next, you need to use what psychologists call 'the constraint of choice', a persuasive trick to get her telephone number. The trick is to give her two options when they're really only one. For example, if you ask for her phone number as you usually would, she will have two options, that is whether to give it to you or not. But then when she is given a choice whether to arrange a date now or later through the phone, you know which one she'll choose because essentially, she really have only one choice. This is a gentle strategy to persuade her to give you her contact number.

Obviously, it takes time and experience to perfect your skills. This is also why older men have more luck with women. Becoming a chick magnet is a skill that can be acquired overtime through practice as well as trial and error.