Turning your friend into a lover sure does pose a great challenge - being in love with your best friend is something we don't want to happen and just thinking about it turns our knees into jelly. But why? Why get all pressured and stressed just because you've developed strong feelings for her? What's so terrible about confessing your love and make her realize she's more than just a friend to you now? Love should be celebrated, not suppressed and it's quite a pity why most of us tend to do the latter. Hope for the best - besides, you can never know what she feels about you too if you don't make the first move. Below are a few tips on how to be her lover instead of just a friend and finally make her love you too!

• Stop being too friendly. Being friendly is nice and all good, however, that's all it's going to be between the two of you. Start being a bit more than just Mr. Nice Guy - showing that you're a bit in demand and popular with the ladies can even boost her confidence and curiosity about you.
• Show your aggressive side. When you get to the point where you're practically on a dead end and not knowing what to do can make you feel quite insane and definitely out of your wits - of course, there's absolutely nothing you can do about it but take some action - be more aggressive! That's going to make you more intriguing.
• Don't be too available. Being available for your best friend is nice and sweet but when you give yourself all-out to her, you'd get drowned in her schedule and she might just take you for granted. Try to be a bit hard-to-get for her too - she'll start to see at a different light sooner or later.
• Take time to enjoy yourself. Don't get too pressured - stress will just add up on you making you feel more tensed - and increasing your chances to mess up. Don't rush things, just enjoy the moment. Patience is still, and will always be, a virtue.
• Make moves on her. As the guy, you're expected to take the first move! Nothing nice will happen if you wait for everything to takes it course. And you can't really expect her to approach you first. Flirt, drop hints and definitely try to send mixed signals - and don't forget to have fun!