To avoid the #1 reason for a break up, divorce or lover's rejection you must first know what it is. Far too often we over analyze and over look the common reason therefore missing the mark to reunite altogether. The reason is simple and extremely common as is the cure!

The # 1 Reason is space and the freedom to just be you

Avoid The Reasons
• First and foremost people need their space, private time to just breathe and be.
• The tendency to change a person or share your forced views prevents this.
• In the beginning your way of doing things is embraced as a means to get to know you.
• You should never expect your partner to take on your way of doing things.
• Expecting change in another is rejecting them as they are.
• You should never do this as it makes the other person void of meaning and desire.
• We all need time to do our own thing away from our partner on a regular basis.
• Everyone also needs their own private space and things in their home.
• No one should ever be made or pressured to change in such a way.

Practice Acceptance - choosing only someone to commit to that is, does and has the qualities that make you happy. Thinking this person will be just right after a few changes is the worst way to build a solid relationship. If you've done this in your current relationship go to your partner or ex and let them know you've seen the light and would like the opportunity to get to know their real and unedited self.

What You Need is someone who likes what you like and basically shares the same interest. There is plenty of room for difference in taste and this is where the space comes into play. Time away from your partner allows both of you the freedom and space to clear the cobwebs and keep it fresh, exciting and charged!

The Big Secret is that there is more than one person for everyone. The old story about everyone having the one perfect mate is a myth. The search is for two puzzle pieces fitting together in harmony and allowing each other to maintain their original shape.

Don't Give Up
• Understanding and making the shift is the biggest most affective thing you can do.
• Think about the person you first met, encourage and except this person.
• Celebrate your difference and enjoy your shared interest!