When couples break up, it's often because of something that in the grand scheme of things is really rather small and should not be a relationship breaker. But, because emotions can run high in these situations, people will say and do things that they do not mean. And the relationship will end, simply because of a small argument or petty disagreement. For many men, the truth is that they will NOT get their girlfriend back.

Here are a few common reasons why she will NOT come back back to YOU:

1. You keep pushing her away. Without knowing it, most men will choose to use actions that will do more to push their ex girlfriend away from them. See, men and women do not respond to the same things when it comes to reconciling a relationship. If you try to do the things that you think will work to get her back, quite often, it will have the opposite effect.

2. You say the WRONG things. In the heat of an argument, or when you are feeling hurt, it's easy to let your mouth run off and say the wrong things. While it may seem like a small things, women take words to heart more often than a man does. And the wrong thing said in a moment can push her away FOREVER.

3. You don' t follow a plan to get her back. Without a proper plan in place to attract her back, you are most likely going to allow those emotions to rear their ugly head and make her want to leave for GOOD. Instead, you should follow a plan that works to ATTRACT her back to YOU.