Want to know how to get a girl to like you increasingly more without even trying?

I'm talking about making her think of you constantly, day in and day out.

You will literally be running marathons inside her head, without breaking a grain of sweat. No, this is not rocket science, nor does it require months of learning.

In fact, I insist you start right away.

So, what does it take to attract more women without even trying?

A departure from convention.

Start playing hard to get.

Yes, you read that right. Revert the tables and playing hard to get with women.

Play a little cat and mouse. Make her chase you. You see, when women invests more time and energy in something, it's very unlikely that they'll want to give it up.

Your date will be thinking to herself: "This guy's so hard to get, but I really like this challenge."

The situation will be delightfully unusual for her since she's often the one being pursued.

Now, for you, the only thing you should really be chasing, is your dream.

So, if you are the type that itches to meet your date on a daily basis, start a restraining order now.

Give her space, and exempt yourself from the possibility of smothering her. Although you're giving her a positive and healthy challenge by being absent, don't make it seem intentional.

The reason for your absence should be due to your time devoted in building your career, making money, contributing to the world, or just hanging out with the boys. In short, you have a life that doesn't only involve her in it.

You see, when you can refrain from not seeing her, or calling in for at least a week, it demonstrates that you aren't desperate. Signs of desperation is a dating no no; as it compromises your attractiveness and perceived value.

It is an absolute turn off when a man has nothing going for him besides his relationship. However, it is another story if you don't call for two to three weeks. That's just being a bit harsh and will make her question your commitment to the relationship.

So, there's never a better time than now to be a positive challenge.

Now, Andrew, what would you do if she's playing hard to get with you?

Simple. Text message her and say "Ahem, I feel like you're trying to play hard to get . It's not very attractive (insert smiley)."

Just this sentence alone can snap her out of the hard-to-get playing mode, and the ball is in your court.

Want to know how to attract more women in this life of yours without even trying?

All that is required from you, is to playing hard to get .

I hope that helps, now go ahead, play mouse.

To your dating success,

Andrew Wang (Allurre)