Most men fear approaching women because they feel that rejection will cripple their self esteem permanently and make life not worth living. The problem with this attitude is that you are coming from a point of low social value. If you want to be successful at approaching women you must come from a high point of social value. This means when you approach you have to have a laid back attitude and have fun instead of taking the situation very seriously. Learning how to approach a girl is very important if you wish to have success in your dating life.

If you do not know how to approach women consistently and get the number then you are missing out on a lot of romantic opportunities in your life and living a below average love life which may be causing you to feel a lot of frustration and effecting the quality of your life as a whole. In this article I will outline two tips to help you get the number of the woman you want to approach.

Right attitude

The right attitude is very crucial for getting the number. Do not make your approach too serious or stone faced because the woman will get turned off and view you as creepy. It is important to maintain a laid back attitude and frame the situation in your mind from a high value point of view. This means you see a hot woman and are going to find out if she has a good personality by talking to her. If she does you will get the number and if she does not than she is not worth your time because she is not up to par with your standards.

Creativity

Be creative in your approach and do not use the same canned lines that women here hundreds of times such as "nice eyes." Instead learn to be thoughtful and original in your approach and ask the opinionated question which can get the woman talking. Open ended questions get the woman talking and make you look unique and original to the woman which is very attractive.