I was recently asked to write an article by one of Ireland's top magazines Stellar, on how women could make themselves more approachable to men and the article is shown below

In a bar/club, men look for women who are easily approachable. It does not matter if she is the most glamorous, the youngest or the sexiest. Any woman can attract more men to open conversation, simply by making herself more approachable.

As you know, due to my business, I spend a lot of time in bars/clubs. In the social scene, I meet a lot of people and I have a large social circle that includes a lot of women. Many of my female friends tell me they really want to find a man but it's so difficult to meet somebody they can really connect with. They say that men don't approach them enough and the ones that do are usually drunk. I know these women are really cool and a lot of them are very attractive. So I started asking them what they usually do on a night out and I also began asking the guys I train how they select women to approach at bars/clubs.

A few weeks ago I was out in Krystal on Saturday night with a group that I hung out with in college. All the girls had boyfriends, except for two - Sinead and Ciara and they started the usual complaint about how hard it was to meet guys etc. I explained to them some of the following tips and I told them if they gave them a try and they were not approached by at least three guys each in the next hour, I would buy the whole group a round of drinks (14 people!!)

So they did it and the group set a timer. After two minutes, two guys approached. 10 minutes later, another guy approached. By the end of the hour, they were approached 11 times between them and when they got back to our group, we learned that Ciara had exchanged numbers with a guy that she had her eye on many times before in the club, but had always been too shy to approach him.

I know that these tips work from teaching guys and the limiting views that a lot of guys have so if you are single and looking for a guy, give them a try.

Stand alone or with one other woman. I know from teaching Bootcamps that guys will not approach a group that has guys in it. Very very few guys will feel comfortable enough to engage a mixed group or even a group of more than three women. You must decide if you are there to socialize with other women, or to meet a man. I know you can't ignore your friends but you must choose what you want. By standing alone or with one other woman, you will make it far easier for a man to approach.

The power of Touch - Most guys will approach in two's so when you are talking to the guys, only touch the guy you are interested in. If you touch his friend, you are sending confusing signals. As you speak to him, touch his arm when you are making a point or make a comment about his clothing while touching it and maintaining strong eye contact. It is a scientific fact that when you touch somebody, even the lightest tip, you can create powerful physical sensations in their body. With the right information about how and when to touch, you can really connect with people. I am a guy and I know the effect this can have on me when women touch me as we are talking. I guarantee you will get a lot attention from the guy you are interested in.

The Busy Points - As you arrive in the club, watch the flow of people and notice the areas that most people pass by. Perhaps it's on the way to the dancefloor, beside the bar or in the smoking area. Also, find somewhere that it's quiet enough to talk. I know in Krystal, the best place is just past the top of the stairs. Look for congestion and areas that people continually come back to. Stand in these points and you will be approached. If you sit in the corner, most guys won't even see you.

Say Hi. Ok, you should be standing at a busy point, with only one of your girlfriends. Every time a cute guy walks by, just say hi with a smile. Even if the guy walks on, you can be sure he is thinking about you and he will probably approach later, when he comes to his senses. It will put you in a great mood, and by just simply saying hi, you set yourself apart as a woman who is friendly to men, something that can be rare in today's social climate. That's often all it takes for you to appear easily approachable to men, and you will be approached all night.

Put aside your Prototype - Everyone has an image of the perfect guy/girl in their mind. If somebody approaches, don't just blow them off straight away based solely on looks. Give them a chance to put forward their personality - you may be surprised to find hidden qualities in them that are very important and attractive to you. It is possible to still maintain your standards, while keeping an open mind. After all, my girlfriend said she would never go out with anyone from the country...

These are just five quick tips on how to attract more men into your life. 44% of Irish women are single and I know that figure is mostly due to situational dynamics and routines people fall into. Men want to meet you, but at least give us a chance. So if you are interested to find a man, perhaps you might try incorporating a few of the above points and I guarantee you will be approached by far more men.

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