You've just met a great guy. But here's the thing -- there are many more pretty women all around you. You're thinking you can't compete. Or can you? What if you knew how to hypnotize men? What if you could put this guy under your "spell" and make all these other women disappear from his sight? The only thing is how do you learn how to hypnotize a man?

Well, I'm here to tell you it's not difficult. Here are 4 techniques you can learn if you want to know how to hypnotize men --

1. "Prep" him

Start off by keeping eye contact just a few seconds longer than usual. Follow this up by matching or "mirroring" some of his gestures eg if he touches his chin, do the same. If he swings his leg towards you, follow. After some time, try changing your gesture and see if he follows you unconsciously. If he does, you have in effect connected with him at the unconscious level without him even realizing it. You are ready for your next step.

2. Use "power" words

Two good examples of power words you can try are "now" and "don't". These are words we associate with our childhood. Words that we knew, when used by our parents, could not be defied without consequences. As a result, we are conditioned to follow any instructions containing these words without question.

You merely have to say something like "Shall we get out of here NOW?". Better still say "We DON'T have to get out of here NOW". In this second example, the implied follow-on statement is in effect "but can you imagine what could happen if we did get out of here... ".

3. The concept of the "assumptive"

Experts will tell you this is the real secret of covert hypnosis. How it works is you merely make the assumption that the other person is going along with your plans, and you craft your words accordingly.

An example would be if the environment you are both in is very noisy. You could say "I find cocktails like this far too noisy to have a good conversation like the one we're having, don't you think?". When he agrees, you deftly say "I know a nice quiet bar round the corner. Let me get my coat". (I forgot to tell you that you have to be a little thick-skinned if you want to learn how to hypnotize a man!)

4. Pacing and leading

The idea behind this technique is that if you say a series of things which are obviously true, then whatever you say after that will seem to be more true, even without facts to back it up. So in your situation, you could say for example "This place is crowded, it's unusually noisy for a big room, the music volume is a bit too high for decent conversation, there are better places nearby for a good chat... ". Can you see how easy it is to use this method to lead someone to believe or agree to something you suggest?

There you have it. 4 of the more powerful techniques you can ever use if you want to learn how to hypnotize men. There's obviously a lot more you could read up on. Unfortunately, specific steps like those outlined above are hard to come by unless you buy a book or a course on hypnosis. However, if you like what you've learned here, and are serious (wink!) about finding out how to hypnotize a man, then go for it. There are many great resources out there. And before you know it, you'll be drawing them (the men I mean) in like bees to honey (you of course!).