OK, so your boyfriend left you and you are probably feeling lousy. You want to call him and see him and get back with him right away. Even if you feel devastated, you have to pick yourself up and be smart. If you are wondering how do you win your ex-boyfriend back, you have to have a plan of action.

First of all, you have to let him go. If you call him and beg him and show him you cannot live without him, you will probably annoy him. Also, he will feel no interest in being with you. You have to do the opposite.

Use the break up time to do things you wanted to do that you had been putting off. You might be interested in taking a class, signing up at the gym, or getting together with old acquaintances. Do things to fill up your time that make you feel good about yourself.

Demonstrate to your ex-boyfriend that you are OK by staying away. You have to create an air of mystery about you so that he will be interested in you again. When he doesn't hear from you, he will be curious and wonder what you are doing and who you are hanging out with.

When he calls you again, you will have the upper hand. Don't be too available. Agree to see him, but not right away. Let him come after you. Men love the hunt. So let him win you back.

How do you win your ex-boyfriend back? If you stick to the plan and use some simple tactics, he will be back sooner than you think.