Some people think that their marriages are so damaged that it won't be possible to continue with them - the marriage is doomed. But today I am here to tell you that this is not the case - not at all. Does this sound a bit far-fetched to you? That you can save your marriage regardless of how bad things are? Read on - I'll prove otherwise.

For starters, I have been where you are now because I too was in a marriage that was ending. My marriage looked completely hopeless - whatever I did, I couldn't get my husband into reconsidering his decision that we should get divorced. First, I acted overly nice to him. When that didN't work, I did the opposite - I acted like a jerk. I thought - something has to work. But that didn't work too.

So then - how can you save this marriage from a divorce?

It's as easy as learning how to do this: Being less accessible to your spouse. Counter-intuitive, right?

When things go wrong, most people react by treating their spouses even better in hopes of a reconciliation. That might work from time to time, but when it's about a marriage that is ending, it won't work. Your spouse is fed up with you and such things will only enhance this.

Whereas - people want what they CAN'T have.

You can and must use this to your advantage. Remember that you are NOT your spouse's property. Be inaccessible to your spouse. Regardless of whether your spouse knows this or not; he/she is used to having you around, and is used to you being so accessible. When you act the opposite way, this suddenly makes you more attractive!

And being more attractive is what you need to change your spouse's mind.