Did your girlfriend break up with you and now you want know how to get her back? There are some good informational books available at the book stores and e-books on the Internet that you may want to consult. But I do have some advice that any man can use to get your girlfriend back.

Do not think that just because she broke up with you, that it means that it is over. The key is to re court her with out pushing her. You want to make her see that you are still into her, but are willing to give her the space she needs to figure things out.

• Evaluate your previous relationship with your ex girlfriend. If you are lucky she told you on the day that she broke up with you. If not, think back to specific times of the relationship and check to see if there were any conversations that you had with her where she voiced any concerns with you. Where there any times when she came home unhappy with you or in general?

• Send her flowers to let her know that you care. Woman love getting flowers. Do not send the flowers with a note saying anything about love. Simply put in the note that you are sending the flower to let her know that were just thinking of her at that moment. Nothing else.

• Work on yourself and get ready for a quick lunch together. Get some new clothes and buy some new cologne. Hopefully she will be calling you back to thank you for the flowers and then you could ask her out for a quick lunch. Nothing serious, gust a lunch together to catch up.

If you are going to lunch together, then you are golden. Do not be pushy during the lunch. Be her friend and let her know that you are there if she ever needs anything. Before you know it, you will be dating again.