So your husband is in the process of moving out and you are unsure if he will be coming back. Do you still love him and want him to stay to work out your relationship problems? Then you are going to need to work a little bit to convince him that leaving would not be in his best interest.

One thing you can work on is to turn yourself into the person that you once used to be. Everyone changed overtime. Of course our looks change, but that is not normally the reason that separation and divorce come about. The norm is that your political views have changed. Or maybe you are not doing the something's that you both used to do when you were dating. Did you used to go to his softball games to watch him play, and then stop after the ring was placed on your finger? Spouses are notorious for doing this, and your husband is looking for a life partner that is interested in his life just as much as he is interested in yours.

Now the next thing that you can do is to work on getting him jealous. Go out and start meeting people. Get dolled up like you used to do. Put on that knockout dress and start mingling. This is going to remind him of the good times that you both once had and he is going to think that he may have made a mistake. Jealousy is a good tool is used the right way. You do not want to make him jealously mad. You just want him to see that you are not sitting around waiting for him to call you. You are sending out the warning signs that you are getting ready to get on with your life without him.