Would you like to know how to get your ex girlfriend back after a tough breakup? You have gone through writing apology letters and tried to think about what you may have done wrong. Well the problem here is that women are very emotional and sometimes they do not know why they feel the way that they do. So it may be in your best interest to save your energy in respect to trying to figure her out. Do what I am about to describe if you want to know how to get your ex girlfriend back.

What you need to do is give her some space allowing some time to pass and let the healing happen naturally. You can use this time to think about what you need to do to become a better boyfriend. Set some goals to research and read some books that can help you become a better boyfriend in the areas that you feel that you are lacking. Take a few months and work on the inner you. Don't just go through the motions, educate and change yourself into a better man and boyfriend.

The great thing about this approach is that as you educate yourself, you will be putting what you have learned into practice a little at a time. Everything will become second nature before you know it. You will have become to sensitive, sweet and caring boyfriend that she has been dreaming about.

After a few months, give her a call. Start out by asking her out for coffee or lunch. The important thing is just to get her to meet up with you for a quick meal. You want her to see the person that you have become. And it does not matter if she is dating someone. It is just lunch and all you want to do is catch up with her and see how she is doing. Make it an innocent date that you are not expecting anything. But make sure you use that charm that you have learned of the past few months.

She will be calling you up to go out on longer dates before you know it. What ever you do, do not revert back into the old boyfriend. And if it does not work, then you will be able to take what you have learned and use it on the next prospect.