Has your man broken your heart and left you asking yourself "how do I get my ex boyfriend back?" You may have started to think about what you may have done wrong or you probably have a book of apology letters that you are thinking about sending off to him. Well I will be the first one to tell you that begging him to come back is not the answer. I have put together a few ides that will be able to help you get your ex boyfriend back in your arms.

• Become the person that he fell in love with. It is normal during the course of dating for a couple to become comfortable with each other. You may have changed your habits or your personality slightly over the past few months and he is seeing you in a new light. Think back to the days when you first met and started dating. That is the person that he fell in love with.

• Ask him out for a lunch. Make sure he understands that it is a non-committal lunch where you both can talk and work out some of your differences. Your goal here is to get him to meet you and work on becoming friends again.

• Use the past to your advantage. Remind him of some of the good time that you both have had. Your relationship may have had its ups and down. Reminding him just may convince him that the relationship is worth saving.

These are a few great tips that can help you and your ex boyfriend find a way to restore your relationship to its former glory. But you do need to remember that you need to go into this with out getting your hopes up. There is always a chance that he may not take you back. And there is a chance that he will take you back. Couples have been known to get back together after a break up.