Have you ever wondered what it takes to for a guy to fall in love? Is it all an impenetrable mystery to you? Or do you secretly believe that there's a system to it all, that other girls know and you don't? If so, you're on the right track. There is a system, and if you follow this three point plan, you'll not only make him fall in love, you'll know it when he gets there!

1. Men Do Fall In Love - Really!

It may seem that men are all fickle and sex-obsessed, but that's as gross a stereotype as any that are peddled about women. True, men can sometimes confuse their biological urges with love, but they have just as much capacity to fall in love as women. When a man falls, he really falls. And when he falls for you, you'll really know it!

So your first step in making a man fall in love is to believe that it can happen. You also want to help the object of your desire resolve that love/lust confusion, so hold off on the physical stuff, at least for a while. If you're tagged as a booty call at the beginning of a relationship, chances are it'll never go much beyond that.

2. Be The Sort Of Woman Men Fall In Love With

You don't need Helen of Troy looks, magical talents, supernatural charm or unlimited wealth to attract a man. You do need to offer genuine friendship, good feelings and a measure of excitement. The basic strategy is to make your man feel good when he's around you. Eventually, he'll associate those good feelings with you personally, and nature will take its course.

The tactics for achieving this depend on your man as an individual. You can get a sense of your man as an individual by listening to him and paying attention. Find out what he likes to see, hear and do, then show, say and join in with those things.

3. The Dance Of Love

In the tango and the rumba, the man leads and the woman follows. Exactly the same principle applies in a relationship. This may seem to go against the grain for modern women, but you're not looking for a career, here. You're looking for love, and when it comes to love, men go slow. Match his pace, take the relationship at the pace he's comfortable with, and never, ever try to hurry things along. What you think is a measure of your great affection just looks like desperation from his point of view. Desperation is never sexy.

The male mind only seems impenetrable. Once you understand a little bit about how they think, you can let their great capacity to fall in love open up in its own time.