One of the questions that a lot of men seem to have a hard time answering, is, what are the HOT spots to meet women? For years, the bar scene has been the staple for single men and women to meet. Unfortunately, a lot of men are not all that comfortable in a bar setting.

So, what are some other options that you can use to find beautiful women that you can meet and build attraction with?

1. Health or Fitness Clubs. There are numerous health and fitness clubs that are swarming with attractive women. Just think about it. Most women are pretty conscious about their bodies. And where do they go? This is a great place where you can meet women. You just cannot be self conscious about your own body.

2. Coffee houses and bookstores. The local Barnes and Noble where I live actually gets quite a few attractive women hanging out. There are many beautiful women that don't want to spend their time getting hit on in bars and a coffee house is a perfect alternative. On the plus side, they won't react the same as if you approach them in a bar. It's much easier to strike up a conversation with a woman in these situations.

3. Parks. I live down near a river and there are many women that hang out there when the weather is nice. It's an easy spot to get a conversation going, and a lot of times, you can end up spending a half an hour or more with a woman you have just met. You have to make sure that you approach her not as though you are trying to pick her up. Just be a guy that is out enjoying the weather and work on building rapport and attraction with her.

Bars are not the only places that you can go to meet and pick up women. When you find other places to find women, it can be much easier as there are less men trying to approach them and they are not as quick to shut you down.