Many women will make men get away with a lot. Men are trained to do whatever they want because there is always another one waiting on the side desperate for a relationship, a commitment, or a ring.

If you want a man to burn for you, make your needs for commitment the priority by removing yourself from the relationship if your man does not want the same thing. When it comes to matters of the heart, this is easily said than done.

If women can learn to control their desperation, they will have more men lined up for a commitment. I'm not saying that you should keep scores or without sex as a punishment, I'm saying that you should put yourself first.

Men are trained from a very early age to be "unsure" when it comes to relationships. Most men will stay in the "maybe" category for as long as they want because they don't want to give up their freedoms easily.

But why should you remain with someone who does not want to have the responsibility of a relationship? I am tired of seeing women mess themselves up by hoping and wishing that a man will give them something when it is clear that the man isn't into wanting a relationship.

Many will stay just so they don't feel lonely because at least they have a pair of legs to keep them warm. But they remain unsatisfied because deep down it is a sell-out.

If you want something, make men respect you enough to give you what you want.