Do you want to know if he loves you? Does he SEEM to love you, but you need to know for sure? That is very understandable. That first kiss, holding hands and so on is wonderful, but we are designed to want more out of life. Romance and marriage and commitment are so important. So how can you know if this is the real deal? Is it true? Maybe he loves you; does he really?
Think about these things:
If a sexual hook up is the only attraction between you, this does not have anything to do with love. This usually does not lead to a marriage proposal. Using sex to attract men or to keep a man only leads to superficial relationships. This is not the way to make him commit to you. You need to pay attention to your appearance, but do not dress in a provocative manner.
Does he call or text you? If you are the one that makes the call or starts the text messaging, that is not a sure sigh of love. That does not necessarily mean that you have been able to make a guy fall in love with you. But if he is the one to start the conversations that means that he is interested in you. Good dating advice says that this is a good sign.
Does he talk to you when there is a group, like at a party or at work? Or does he ignore you, making you have to go over to him? Male psychology says that if he is ignoring you, perhaps he did not really fall in love. Real love would make him seek out your company.
Does he listen to you when you talk? If he really wants you to be his girlfriend, he will listen to you with his heart. When you say you have a problem, he will try to help you with it. If you are depressed, he will want to help you feel better. Does he compliment you? If he loves you, he will support you emotionally.
Does he ask you for things? Does he always want to borrow money or your car? Does he pay you back, or are you doing way more for him than he is for you? This may show his true intentions.
Has he said that he loves you? Has he talked about your future together in a positive way? Has he make plans for a wedding, or has he avoided the subject altogether? What he says or does not say can be meaningful.
Does he flirt with other women? Does he date other women? If he shows you a lot of attention, but there is another woman to whom he does the same, then his so called love for you is very superficial. A real lover will forsake and give up others for you.
Pay attentions to these questions. Look at his behavior. That will tell the tale. Whether he loves you or not can be proven by his conduct toward you.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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