Getting an ex back can be extremely difficult for some people, unfortunately most guys don't have the right knowledge or advise of what to do to get their girlfriends back after cheating on her, Most guys will repeatedly make the same mistakes over and over again, decreasing any chances of getting back with their girlfriends.

Do not let her take advantage of you in the situation. I mean, thinking that she can come and go when she pleases, thinking that she is too good for you, unfortunately this is the mentality of most men in this situation, they give in to their girlfriends needs and wants, giving her the advantage to take control of them and situation.

For example in this kind of situation guys seem to act needy and desperate saying "I love you and I will never do it again" Although this may seem and feel like the appropriate thing to say at the time but unfortunately it only makes you look insecure and not someone she can rely on as a boyfriend. Therefore she knows that you want her back so naturally she won't chase after you as you are in her control.

As the saying goes "people want what they can't have" for example when does a person want a job the most? When they don't have a job. So when do you want your ex back? When you don't have her, right? Now that you have an idea of some basic principals of your current situation you can use these tips to your advantage.