Are you longing to get a commitment from your man? Do you wish you knew what you could do to make him commit to you with out losing him? Are you ready to give that gentle push so that he will commit to you for good? Is now the right time for you to be in a relationship with the potential for tomorrow. If you are ready for the relationship you deserve than you need to give him a gentle push into commitment without making it one he will run from.

Stay busy with your life.
Your life should show that you don't need him. While this may seem odd, he will feel like he has something to compete with and this will cause him to want to make a commitment. It doesn't mean ignore him or don't spend time with him. But you do want to make sure that you have fun and that the only way he can be a better part of your life is through a commitment. Make sure you do this without being snobby about it!

Go on dates.
If he is dating other women and going out there and having fun without you, then there is no reason not to do the same with other guys. Go out and have fun. Make sure he knows you are dating and that you are having fun, but don't get carried away making him feel like he isn't able to compete. Don't go on and on about other guys and continue to make it clear to him that you would rather be committed to him.

Open up to him.
Many women think that men should know what they want. Some even think that they have been giving out excellent signals and wonder why he hasn't gotten them. Truth of the matter is that men and women communicate differently and often men struggle to get the point. If you want a commitment you should tell him. Sit him down and let him know that you would like a commitment from him and tell him that you want a commitment. To do this sit him down and talk. Make sure you don't get upset, don't cry, and don't yell or nag. After the conversation, step back and give him some space. Let him make the decision for himself without you nagging or pressuring him.

You will give him a gentle push into commitment by keeping your own life active and full. Go on dates with other men and open up to him. Being clear and letting him know what you really want is important.