Getting your ex to pay attention to you again is definitely not going to be a problem once you can abide by my set rules and instructions. They are easy to comprehend and works every time like magic. You have to understand the mind set of your ex before you can get his attention.

Guys love challenges; they love realistic and independent girls not some "puppy love chic", they love you more when you are confident and in control of you and not him constantly telling you what to do.

Getting your ex to pay attention to you again will be a result of how much change you are willing to make. If you truly want your ex attention then you will have to:

1. Get your self a job; guys love financially independent females

2. Give your appearance a complete make over. In other words, change the way you look. Make your hair, get new cloths, and change your wardrobe with the help of a professional stylist. Get a new life, flourish.

3. Visit the spa monthly for your facial treatment, have a steam bath to burn off calories, have a manicure and a pedicure, have your body scrubbed and conditioned as the end result is always mind blowing.

Once these sets of rules have been adhered to, one step at a time your ex will begin to cling around you and at this point be friendly but don't loose it. Don't let him see through you. Guys love mysterious ladies so be mysterious!

Getting your ex to pay attention to you again is now automatically achieved. Gradually the relationship that was once lost, will surprisingly begin to build again. Start by being friends first; let him really desire you before jumping into bed with him again. Getting the right attention requires you displaying the right attitude!