How can you tell if a guy really loves you? Do you wish there was an easy way to decipher his feelings? Are you tired of waiting around for his feelings to catch up to yours? Here are the secrets to making a man fall in love.

First, remember that men are quick to bed but slow to commitment. Don't confuse the two. Just because a man wants to sleep with you doesn't mean he's ready for any kind of commitment. You cannot use sex as a shortcut to getting him to love you. It just doesn't work, and it will leave you feeling disappointed and resentful.

Second, don't try to force commitment from a man by using ultimatums. This type of pressure leaves him feeling resentful toward you. Threatening someone to make them love you is the ultimate misunderstanding of how real love works. Love is something the two of you choose to give to each other.

Third, sometimes men can be pressured into saying things they don't mean. He may say what you want to hear in order to get you to leave him alone. It's an easy way for him to relieve the pressure he is feeling. Of course, it will actually only make things worse for both of you, but he's not thinking about the long term outcome. He just wants to stop the nagging.

Fourth, remember that a man's stubbornness may lead him to do the opposite of what he knows you want him to do. No one likes to be controlled and it is human nature to show our autonomy by not doing what someone else is trying to force us to do. This never works when trying to get a man's love.