He broke off the relationship, but you still love him. Now you have the problem of getting him back. Since you are reading this it appears you are looking for help. Well you came to the right place because I'm going to give you some advice about how to make your ex boyfriend fall for you again that has proven very effective for other women in the same situation you find yourself right now. You can turn things around in your favor quickly and easily, but the main thing you must do right now is control your emotions and resist the urge to contact him. This means no calls, emails or text messages. You must disappear from his life for awhile. Next you must do some deep thinking and some remodeling too. Here is what I mean:

First - You need to get to the bottom of the problem or problems that caused the breakup. Think of things you argued about. Was there any trouble with family members on either side. Did you disagree about food or entertainment? These things might seem small but over time they can grow into monsters and keep widening gaps in your relationship. Think of as many things as you can that might have caused your ex to run. At a time like this the tendency is to look at the one big argument and forget the little things that might have accumulated and led to the big breakup argument. To make your ex boyfriend fall in love with you again, you will have to know why he fell out of love with you.

Second - Now, from all these small and large relationship problems that could have caused the breakup, isolate the ones that were your fault. This takes some honesty and soul searching. It is not easy to place blame on yourself but in every breakup both parties have some responsibility for the split. The blame cannot be placed on one person alone. So think of what you did to contribute to the problem and figure out how you are going to go about correcting these faults. Getting him back will do no good if the same old problems drive him away again.

Third - The remodeling. Your ex boyfriend fell in love with you because of certain personality traits that you possessed. Of course your looks played a good part too. Over time everyone becomes too comfortable in a relationship and tends to let things slide somewhat. Maybe you were taking your ex for granted. You were quick to criticize or argue about small things. When the two of you first met, you were happy and outgoing. You had interesting and funny expressions. These captivated his heart. Whatever he saw in you then he will have to see again.

Fourth - You need to go look in the mirror. Not just to see the outward you but look in the eyes all the way to the soul and see the woman you used to be. To make your ex boyfriend fall in love with you again you will have to become that woman again. Outwardly and inwardly. This is absolutely necessary because somewhere along the way you became less attractive to your man. You need to be that woman again and let your ex boyfriend know it.