Getting back with your ex love may seem impossible but what if you could recapture your ex loves heart? What if you could start over again? What if you had the secret to get your ex back right now? Even if you feel right now that your situation is too far gone...too messed up...or just plain too darn hard?

Well first of all,You may have been crying "I want to get my lover back!" since the moment you broke up,you may have been begging and pleading with them but this may be the worst thing you could do.YOU NEED TO GIVE THEM THEIR SPACE! there are good reasons to wait before you try to get them back.Your ex love will need time for the hurt anger and bad feeling to subside.They need to feel how it is with out you.You cannot smother your by calling them day and night and what ever you do do not show at their house or job unexpectedly!

The second thing you need to is to understand the underlying cause of your break up..You have know the why left. How could you get your ex back and keep them if you do not even know the reason the break up happened in the first place. You will need to know what to change or avoid the the same situations.

The third thing you need to do is be understanding,unselfish,and most of all forgiving.Really pay attention to what your ex love says to you.(do not offer your advice or your feelings about what they say to you unless they ask. Be sensitive to their needs and you have to be able to put your ex loves needs ahead of your own,in a word be selfless.

These are some of the first steps you need to take in getting back with your ex love.