Sometimes we are not trying hard enough to save the relationship that we have and as a result it comes to an end. As time goes by all the bad memories begin to fade, leaving a person to understand that he/she made the biggest mistake of all - let go the one he/she loved. Both men and women submit the same request to different forums every day: “Please advice on how to get my ex back!” Of course, every situation is different and there is no single solution that will work one hundred per cent. But there are certain things you can do to improve relationship with your ex and possibly win him/her back.

Start by identifying mistakes you both have made in the past and then honestly answer one question ”Will you be able to avoid them in the future?” If you think that you fully realized what went wrong in your relationship and you are willing to fix it, all you need to do is to make your ex believe that there is still a chance for you.

Do not promise the person that you love that you’ll change and everything will be different. Words mean nothing unless they are confirmed by action!

Think what did you ex wasn’t particularly fond of in your behavior? Maybe you didn’t pay him/her enough attention? Or maybe you’ve become a sloppy dresser and stopped caring how you look? What can you do to improve yourself?

For example, you can surprise your ex with unexpected gift or offer him/her to spend the whole day together. Or you can impress your ex with how stunning you look. I know that looks shouldn’t be as important as the inner world, but in reality they are. It is a lot nicer to be around a confident well-dressed person, than around someone who looks like he/she just got out of bed.

To win back the one you love, you should become a person your ex would immediately get attracted to. If you feel depressed or jealous around your ex, try to hide your feelings. Be strong! It is not the right time to throw any accusations into your ex’s face and offend him/her. You have to respect feelings and wishes of the person that you love.

Do not push your ex even further away, by trying to “manipulate” him/her into getting back with you using money, blackmail or guilt trip. Instead show your best side by being attentive, understanding, gentle and caring with the person that you want to win back. Even if he/she is seeing someone else right now, you can still beat your competition by acting better than him/her. So if you think that your ex still has feelings for you, don’t give up easily. Fight for your happiness, because you deserve it!