Are you in the process of going through a break up? Are you considering the chances of getting back together? This is not a new feeling and there are proven methods to do it. Here are three must know steps when trying to win back you ex.

 First of all you need to get you head in the right place. I know you are probably feeling very depressed and down. The only thing appealing right now is sitting inside feeling sorry. This cannot happen! That is just going to push your ex further away so check out these tips and get the information you need to get your ex back.

 Step 1 - Getting Back Together: It Really Happened, You Broke Up. Accept it!

 You need to recognize that the break up is actually happening. There are obviously reasons behind it. The most constructive option right now is to let your ex know that you are just fine and begin the process of moving on. This will send you ex the message that you are not going to sit around and feel sorry for yourself and maybe they are missing out on something with you.

 Step 2 - Getting Back Together: Cut Off Communication!

 This is not the time for the two of you to be talking. This means conversation, text and e mail. Use this time to get your thoughts in order and let them do the same. This will give some time to let the emotions cool down a bit as well. This will also send a clear message from the previous step.

 The beauty of this step is that it also gives your ex time to miss you. Once they start realizing what they lost it is not uncommon for them to come back to you. They will also begin to realize what their life is going to be like without you in it

 Step 3 - Getting Back Together: Planning For The Future

 Now you can start planning for what you want to happen. If you have followed the above steps then you have set the situation up in your favor. The next couple of steps are very important because you need to learn how to use the situation to your advantage. There is a great author, T.W. Jackson, who is a relationship genius. He has totally figured out the rest of the steps for getting back together.