Break ups can be difficult on both parties involve and the family that may have had a vested interest in the couple. But it does not mean that the relationship is truly over. In fact, it could just be beginning. There should always be hope that the relationship will develop again and that you could get your ex girlfriend back. Many successful relationships go through a period where the couple took time off from each other. It could have been because they each wanted to see what their options are before taking the relationship to the next level. But what ever the reason, the spark can come back.

Here are a few ways that you can use to help nudge your girlfriend back into your arms.

1) Evaluate your relationship and see what went wrong. Hopefully she communicated the reason to you when she broke off the relationship. But if she didn't, just think back to history of the relationship and look for signs of unhappiness. This can point to trouble areas that you need to fix prior to approaching her.

2) Get your life in order. If you have trouble holding down a job, then I would suggest get a job and holding on to if for a while. If you are a drinker, then I would suggest staying off the alcohol and work on improving your life. Show her that you can change and that you are doing it for her.

3) Ask her out on a noncommittal lunch. Market the meeting as a time for two friend to get back together and catch up. Let her know that you have been thinking about her. Give her the space she needs and be a listener when she talks to you. Do not expect anything to come from this lunch date. The purpose is to show her that you have an interest in her, and that you are willing to wait out the storm for her.

Keep the hope alive for your relationship to redevelop. Continue to stay friends with her, and she will see the light before you know it.