Get your ex girlfriend back by saying the right words. Surprised? Don't be! One major complain I here from chic's is: "my boyfriend never says am sorry", "he never compliments my efforts or my looks", "he doesn't understand how I feel", " he is adamant", "he doesn't say I love you", "he doesn't care about me", "he never shows me love" and the list goes on.

Get your girlfriend back by doing "a little more" of what she wants or by saying the things she blames you of not saying. Girls are sensitive and very emotional; they are moved by what they hear and see. So play along.

Getting your ex girl friend back would require a lot of changes from you and your attitude. You have got to quit your manliness ego and just be a lover. A real lover! Be more caring, be more understanding, show appreciation for everything and for nothing. Drop the ego and be her hero!

Getting your ex girl friend back requires calculated steps:

1. Walk up to her and apologize for your "wrong deeds"; be honest yet with dignity. Ladies know when a guy is sincere but they hate "cry" begging men. So have some dignity when you apologize.

2. Visit her occasionally just to say hi in a "calm, confident and subtle way". Make light conversations and leave.

3. Show care and pay attention when ever you get the chance to be around her, let her notice changes in you by truly changing your attitude towards her.

4. Be romantic; send her gifts and flowers for doing nothing. Just tell her you appreciate her more, tell her you respect her and what ever her decisions.

5. Be a friend; just friends with no hidden intentions for sex!

I bet you in no time she will be longing for you. She will be convinced. Trust me!