So the relationship you have cared for quite some time now has finally ended and you think it's really over, so what now? You are feeling all alone and left with nothing but a painful breakup.

Yes I know how it feels - my boyfriend left and broke up with me and the feeling was more than the word painful. I didn't get right through it. Still thinking about him and remembering the good memories we shared and asking myself then why it has to happen. All I wanted to do is get my ex boyfriend back right away.

But those were just a feeling of desperation, a part of yesterdays because I totally get over it and not just it; I was able to find ways on how to get ex back. Here now, I will be sharing with you my secrets on how to get your ex back too!

Here are some of the few things that will help you get your ex back.

1. Never make the first move in making up with your ex boyfriend at once. Allow him to think and give him a space to miss you and vice versa. Breakup will not come about all of a sudden. Give yourselves a time to miss each other and reflect on the times you have together. Once you do this there is one thing is for sure your ex boyfriend will make the move in making up again with you the minute he realizes the happy memories you once had.

2. Ensure that you are still in good communication with your ex boyfriend. Because guys generally still like to communicate with their ex girlfriends after split up. So there is a big chance in getting your ex back. You might initiate to give him a call or send him an email every so often but make it sure that those messages are not the begging type of you, you know what I mean. A simple hi and hello will simply work out.

3. Above all, build trust with your ex boyfriend. This is just the most part where you can get your ex back. You also need to build a contact with your ex, in that way he will realize the feelings he has for you. Your ex will for sure start to wonder and see the person whom he was fallen in love with and this could become your key in getting your ex back with happiness!