So you met that man you're crazy about, how do you make him fall in love with you? How do you get past lust and achieve love? What's most important for you to do to make him love you? Surely enough, a woman can turn a man on sexually, but what must she do to make him fall in love with her?

If you want a man to love you, you must start out by loving yourself. Everyday, remind yourself how great you are. Think about your best traits and don't dwell on mistakes or bad things you've done in the past. It may even help to write the wonderful things that you have in life as well as your greatest skills and strengths, then review this list daily.

Never come across to him as desperate and overly dependent on him. Even though he's a part of your life, you still have family and friends to spend your time with. Even if you're dating someone now, you still must spend some quality time alone. Do not ever feel that you need to spend all your time with him just because he's your boyfriend.

To really make him fall in love with you, you must come across to him as more than just a sex object. Become a good friend to him and have some deep conversations too. The more you talk, the better you both can relate to one another, the greater quality your relationship will be. He'll think of you as more than just some sexy lady with nice legs, he'll think of you as a friend and eventually a lover as well as an attractive girl he loves to be around.

Also, feel free to be yourself when you're with him. Never be tense or try to act the way you think he wants you to. After all, you're only you. Be silly and amusing at times. Act a little bit goofy if you feel like it. By freely expressing yourself, he'll see that there are more aspects to your personality than just your serious side.

To summarize, never be too serious or come across as being committed to please him. Show him how flexible you are, don't seem as stiff as a board. Don't act overly dependent or desperate for him. These things are turn-offs and can put a sudden end to your relationship. Remember, you're always free to continue to engage in family and social activities without him. Following these guidelines will make him fall in love with you.