First of all I'm going to assume you've gone through a breakup, and now you are working to get lover back? Theres many different things you've probably tried already, but I'm here to tell you that the right thing to do is normally the opposite of what you want to do. I'm going to explain the weaknesses of the human mind and how you can use those weaknesses to get your ex to come back to you.
In The Magic Of Making Up by TW Jackon's, he uses a technique that relies on a "Magic Second Chance Letter".
What is a Magic Second Chance Letter?
Well basically it's a handwritten letter that will be seen as really out of the ordinary by your ex. This letter is far more effective than calling, texting, instant messaging, emailing will ever be. This letter can have the power to heal your broken relationship if used right.
The "second chance" really has a dual meaning. The first meaning is that it is a "second chance" if you have already made a ton of mistakes in trying to get back with your ex - this is the bandage. The second meaning is simply a foot in the door for a "second chance" and gaining an opening back into the heart and mind of your ex. The best time to use the letter is a few days after the break up, BEFORE any acts of desperation have taken place. The other time is "bandaging" some "dumb" things that might have been said or done after a break up. These are usually acts of desperation. Is there a time not to use it? Yes, it would be silly to send this letter to your ex if you are just rekindling an old relationship. It would just be weird and unproductive.
Why The Magic Letter Works
The goal of the letter is simply to show that you are okay and fine with the break up. This creates a vacuum in their mind. It allows their mind to start to miss you and want you again. Now, notice I say ALLOWS. See, their mind can't possibly even start to miss you or want you back...if consciously and/or subconsciously they know that they can just pick up the phone...snap their fingers...and poof your back.
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