Are you ready to take your relationship to the next level, but you have to make him fall in love with you first? Is he stuck on the brink of love, and you can't quite pull him over the line? Does he seem afraid that love is a trap that he is not yet ready to commit to? Then you have a normal man on your hands. You can risk pushing him away, or you can follow these tips to make him fall in love with you.
Understand your man. Men take a whole different path to love than we do. Love is not their goal from the start like it usually is for us. Women are candy and he wants to taste your sweetness. He may find total infatuation and satisfaction in your physical charms, but he will not love you for your physical attributes alone, and he cannot be talked or nagged into love. Love is not a goal that men chase and grab; it is a hidden surprise that sneaks up on them from behind.
Picture a circular track with Him positioned at 4 o'clock, You at 8 o'clock, and Love at 12 o'clock high. The action moves clockwise, as you chase after Love, He chases after You, and Love chases after Him. Love moves slowly, and you catch it right away. He is faster and will soon catch you. Now, you must let love go for now so that it can slowly work its way around the track until it finally catches him from behind. You can only make him fall in love by letting love find him.
For love to catch your man, you need to keep him on the track and interested by working your way into his head, his daily routine, his adventures, his happy times, and his thoughts. Love is a physical-emotional, social-sensual, pyscho-sexual bond that can only exist in a three-dimensional completeness involving two whole beings. The body and soul work together to form a solid bond that rises above both physical attraction and friendship, though it must include both.
The secret is simple. Attract him with your beauty, your smile, your legs and your kiss. Whatever works for you. But don't give it all away until you get him under your spell. A little sexual tension will keep him coming back, but you need to start building your solid foundation of friendship, mutual respect, shared adventures, and history. You need to share laughs and smiles, reinforced by the titillation of your touch and the comfort of your support and acceptance.
Wait until he needs you to be the one that he shares the story of his day with, and calls you just to share a moment of human interaction that only you can provide. Then love has caught up to him, and you can release the rest of your feminine charms that will surely make him love you even more deeply and enduringly.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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