Ex Girlfriend Or Girlfriend? You Decide!

They say 'it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all'. I am sure that you disagree, you just want your girlfriend back with you and you can't believe the amazing relationship you shared with her is no more! Let's get to the point right away, I'm not going to talk about the hurt or the guilt or the recovery. I'm going to discuss the important bit; i.e. winning her back.

Firstly don't stalk, follow or threaten her. The last thing she needs is a domineering ego-maniac who can't sense her need for space. Respect her boundaries and don't try dirty games if she has met someone else. Channel your anger and hurt into healthy pursuits that will leave you feeling healthier in mind and body. Flaunt it in a way that makes her desire you once again.

Secondly know that criticism is a healthy part of any relationship but when overdone can cost you your girlfriend. You are her boyfriend, not her father. While you can point out when something is clearly destructive, you would fare better to let the little things go unless it is non-negotiable and absolutely hurtful to your relationship. No woman wants to feel that she is doing everything wrong, rather make her feel like she is right by suggesting she could do something differently. Make it sound like her idea than like you are imposing something on her.

Your girlfriend left you, but winning her back is not the sole need. You have to win back her trust and respect and invoke the desire in her to stay with you. The last thing you can do is throw your money and gifts at her. That makes her feel like a possession. You can't buy love, sure you can buy some attention but that was when you were together. Right now what she needs is not flowers or expensive trinkets but to see that you admit that you were wrong and respect her and love her.

Never act needy and don't be too eager to play best friend to her post your break-up. If you slip into the friend zone, your value is downsized. Distance does make the heart grow fonder. Make sure you stay in her radar but also make sure that she knows through common friends that you love her and is giving her the space to recover and accept you back.

Flirting is healthy, when meeting your ex-girlfriend turn on the charm but don't suffocate her with attention. Spread yourself around a little, let the other women flock and preen for you. But do make sure she doesn't end up angrier at you when you invite a little too much attention. A woman would want a desirable man not one who can't control his desires!

Over and above all, let her see a naughty side to you. Dress to kill and be a little naughty. Nice guys are not always the winner's; sometimes a bit of raunchiness and mystery can add oodles to your sex appeal to a woman. Too nice is also often too boring. So keep that in mind when you want to win your girl back. Always when flirting, keep both your comfort levels in mind and savor the moment. Don't jump into bed immediately, tease her with memories and savor it till she's fully ready and you're back on. It would be a lot better for the wait and will have won you her respect as well.

Now listen carefully!

I don't want to scare you, but, your ex is not going to be around forever...They will eventually going to find somebody else and they are going to hook up with them...They are going to fall in love, they are going to have sex...so on and so forth...

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