So,  you have had an interest in a particular woman and you aren't sure whether or not she is feeling you the same way.  This happens all of the time to men and for the most part,  it doesn't end up well.  Most guys will get frustrated and confused and next thing you know,  they start to do the things that REPEL a woman,  not attract her to them.  It's probably not a secret to you that women like to play hard to get.  This is just par for the course when it comes to dating.

But,  how can you tell if she is playing hard to get or she really does not feel about YOU in the same way?

1.  Are you the one that always contacts her?  If you are the one that always does the contacting or initiates the conversation,  then chances are pretty good that she is NOT feeling the same way about you.  While it is true that some women are shy to approach a man,  if YOU are always the one making the move,  this is not a good sign.

2.  Does she flirt back with YOU?  It's amazing how much time a guy will waste flirting and trying to win over a woman that does not reciprocate any interest at all.  If you are flirting with her,  and she does nothing at all to flirt back,  chances are pretty good that she is not playing hard to get, it's time to move on and approach another woman.

3.  Does she talk about you to her friends.  For most women,  when they are REALLY feeling a guy,  they have a hard time keeping their mouth closed about this when they are with their friends.  If she talks about you all of the time with her girlfriends,  then it's a pretty good shot that she DOES like you and maybe playing hard to get.

There are always exceptions to the rules,  but most women will give away clues when they are attracted to a man.  You have to pay attention to see if she is playing hard to get with YOU.