Are you uncertain about whether the man you are currently with wants a relationship? What should you do if he's sending mixed signals? Is there really a way to determine a man's true intentions? Although every situation is different, there are some signs to look for to determine if he really wants a relationship.

Sometimes it's easier to stay in limbo because you fear reality. Don't let fear keep you from looking for the truth in your relationship. You will be much better off looking for the signs that he wants a relationship than sticking your head in the sand and hoping for the best.

It is cause for concern if a man isn't communicating with you on a routine basis. If his phone calls are becoming less and less frequent, it indicates that he's either not interested in pursuing a relationship with you right now or that you are one of several women that he may be involved with. He's not quite ready to let you go, but he's not ready to let the others go either.

If your man takes the initiative in making plans, that is a great sign that he's looking for a relationship. Men don't spend time with women just to be nice or out of a sense of obligation. So if you are seeing each other regularly, then you have reason to be confident in the relationship.

Here's the hardest question to pose to yourself. Are you using sex as a way to keep him around? The best way to determine his true intentions when sex is involved is to tell him that you are uncertain about the future of the relationship and therefore you want to take a break from having sex. You will find out very quickly if he really wants a long term relationship. If he agrees to keep seeing you then he may be a keeper, but if he puts up a fuss, he probably won't stick around much longer.