Do you have a hard time figuring out what it takes to make a guy fall in love? Are you constantly obsessing and worrying about whether he really loves you or not? Find out now what makes a guy fall in love.

Guys fall in love with women who have their acts together emotionally, socially, sexually, and mentally.

Men look for women who are in control of their emotions. This doesn't mean that you don't ever feel sad, hurt, rejected, or overwhelmed. However, the way you handle these negative emotions is what sets you apart from other women. Playing the part of a victim is a turn off to most men. Men appreciate a resilient woman who can bounce back quickly and with renewed enthusiasm. The main thing to remember about men and emotions is that you don't want to overreact. Think about the situation and try to see it from his perspective as well as your
own.

Men are drawn to women who have an active social life. Whenever a man sees that you have a full and active life, he does not perceive you as a threat to his need for independence. It also shows him the many sides of your personality. Guys fall in love with women who have a wide range of interests especially if those interests seem to contradict each other. For example, guys think it's hot when a woman knows how to kick butt in the gym but then an hour later she's being a mentor to disadvantaged youth. This contrast between strength and softness is something that men crave in women.

Men want women who are sensual while still making them wait for sex. It increases a man's desire for you when he can't get what he wants right away. You can be sexy and alluring without sleeping with him right away. Give him the opportunity to anticipate what it will be like when it does finally happen.

Men need women who are mentally stimulating. Men get bored easily when a woman is all looks but no brains. Challenge his thinking by communicating your own opinions and ideas.

For a man to fall in love, he needs to see you as the total package. It's your unique combination of beauty, brains, personality, and sensuality that will leave him wanting more.