Do you want to do it right and make a man fall in love with you this time? Do they seem to go running scared the minute you really fall for them? Are you unable to put a finger on what you're doing wrong? If you don't want to be doomed to have a history of failure repeat itself, then take a tip before you make a slip, and this time you are going to make a man fall in love with you.
Make him want you.
Show off your best assets in a tasteful way. Sexy is fine, as long as it doesn't cross the line to trashy. A woman who can pull off a sexy appearance looks confident and appealing to a man. Then you have to add an element of sweet approachability. Smile. Look him gently in the eyes. Say hello. Your mood has to be inviting, because he is dealing with self-esteem and fear issues too.
You have to offer a comfortable place for him to land, because he may not approach if he thinks his advance may be rejected. Once you are in his company, you have to lean in to show interest in the conversation, and keep the smile and the eye contact going. Casually grab his arm at dramatic points in his story or yours. As things get relaxed, comfortable, and quiet, you may want to touch his shoulder or gently brush his hair back with your fingers, being sure to let your silky smooth hand touch his cheek.
Make him need you.
Getting him close and building sexual tension are important elements of initial attraction, but they will not be the foundation of a strong and lasting relationship. Every woman on the planet can fulfill his physical desires. Now you have to get him to the point where "It's got to be you." This involves getting those warm tingly feelings he gets from your closeness into his brain as well. If you want to make a man fall in love, you have to become part of his life, part of his history, and part of his support system.
So, share some adventures together-go on daytime dates playing softball or visiting a museum. Go to the supermarket together, and maybe share laundry day at the laundromat or your place (but make sure he pulls his weight). Share big things and small things, laugh together, and have quiet cozy moments of bonding. Once a guy is too big to rely on Mom, he has nobody who will give him back emotional comfort and support, and he will soak up your kindness and tenderness. You will get under skin. Just be sure you do not talk about love; let your kisses tell him your feelings. Talk about life.
Make him wait.
Sex can be the glue that holds a relationship together and adds a dimension of strength and endurance. But first there has to be something for the glue to stick to. Don't become just another fling. Remember that the challenge for men ends with the conquest, unless there is a solid emotional basis to build on. Make him want you and need you before you fulfill his desires. And even then, don't let every date just become a prelude to sex, or the relationship will never grow. If you want to make a man fall in love with you, then keep having some daytime dates, and get a "headache" once in a while.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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