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Dating Advice Tip - Meet Women and Overcome Shyness
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Michael Bak
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This dating advice tip article is about how to meet women and overcome any fear you might have. The reason lots of guys are shy is because of the way they're brought up. It's a LEARNED behavior. There is a way you can unlearn it and become the confident type that you were born to be. The more confident you act, look, and feel the better women (and people in general) will respond to you. These are simple things you can do to increase your chances of meeting women immediately:
Eye Contact
This is something that I did when I was too shy to approach women. I'd practice making eye contact with people in general. The next time you lock eyes with a woman, hold it for a bit longer than normal and smile. It's important to have a positive gaze, we're not trying to creep her out here. A positive gaze will happen naturally if you're in a good mood.
Talk to Everyone
Practice striking up conversations with everyone throughout your day. This is actually a lot easier than it sounds. What will happen is that after speaking with a few people, you'll get on such a roll! The words will just fly out of your mouth. This is the perfect state to approach and meet women!
Body Language
If you're standing and speaking with someone, practise standing tall with your shoulders back. Your back should be straight with your chest out a little bit. This will seem silly at first and before you know it you'll be standing with an alpha male stance all the time. You can practise this in front of the mirror until it feels natural.
First Move is On You
Most people (especially girls) won't strike up a conversation with you. Everyone is in their own little world, or their too shy. Whatever the case may be, it's on you to make the first move. Don't know what to say? Don't worry.
Say Anything
An easy way to start a conversation is to just walk up and say the first thing that comes to mind. It can be literally anything. I've gone up to girls and blurted out things like "I like pasta" and had it go well. They just laugh. A compliment is also an easy way to start a conversation. The way to make a compliment work is for it to be genuine. You actually have to like the thing you're complimenting. A quick dating advice tip: try to stay away from complimenting women on their body parts. It's super predictable and makes you look silly.
I hope you found these dating advice tips helpful! Pick one or two that you like most, go out, and try them today!
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Article Submitted On: October 28, 2009
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Bak, Michael "Dating Advice Tip - Meet Women and Overcome Shyness." Dating Advice Tip - Meet Women and Overcome Shyness. 28 Oct. 2009 EzineArticles.com. 23 Nov. 2009 <http://ezinearticles.com/?Dating-Advice-Tip-Meet-Women-and-Overcome-Shyness&id=3170590>.
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Bak, M. (2009, October 28). Dating Advice Tip - Meet Women and Overcome Shyness. Retrieved November 23, 2009, from http://ezinearticles.com/?Dating-Advice-Tip-Meet-Women-and-Overcome-Shyness&id=3170590
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Bak, Michael "Dating Advice Tip - Meet Women and Overcome Shyness." Dating Advice Tip - Meet Women and Overcome Shyness EzineArticles.com. http://ezinearticles.com/?Dating-Advice-Tip-Meet-Women-and-Overcome-Shyness&id=3170590