For those trying to conquer a porn addiction there is perhaps no better advice than "seek and ye shall find."
You may have sought out help on your own. Or perhaps you were told by a friend, wife/husband or mom/dad to get help. Either way, as you make courageous efforts to understand your addiction and the effects porn's having on you, you will most likely come to find that desire.
If you don't currently have that desire it's okay. Desire comes as one considers what he really wants in his life, as he learns the truths necessary to achieve those goals (including how addictions form & how to get rid of them) & as he begins to move towards it.
Let's look at some of the truths about porn that will help you succeed in on your way to freedom from porn addiction.
- Pornography in never victimless: Porn producers abuse, manipulate & deceive models to get them to pose. In doing so, they deceive themselves as well. You as a viewer are a victim and so are those around you who loose the full capacity of your great talents & love. There also exists a violent sex slave industry that is fed by the demand for pornography.
- Pornography has been referred to as an erototoxin that greatly affects the brain. It mimics healthy sexual processes, but delivers quite different outcomes than does sexual intercourse between husband wife - it ties the viewer to its images rather that to a another human in love & respect.
- Porn addiction progresses in stages. Because of the tolerance buildup porn seekers have to continually seek greater and greater excitement insomuch that they will often leave behind their values and disregard promises to loved ones so they can seek out the illusory pleasure.
These simple 3 truths about porn are just a few things to consider as you set out to conquer porn addiction. Overcoming this insidious habit requires a strong commitment to learning, introspection and pro-activity.
Without which one can never really arrive at the goal. This can be very frustrating, as you may know, not to mention very draining. Know this: there IS hope! You are not alone!
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