Imagine like this. You are to get a promotion in your job. Your elder daughter has just started going to school. Due to your precise financial planning, housing loan of your husband is soon to be paid in full. And there changes the situation. Due to your intense involvement in your job and home issues, you could not know that your husband is having an affair. After considering all the alternatives you have to come to one word conclusion: Divorce.   

Divorce is choice of no one, per se. No one desires this; it is not a gadget that one would plan going to a mall and like to own. It happens as a compulsion only. It is like you were driving in rough weather anyhow, but at one point you arrive at a dead end. 

There is hardly an aspect your life where the incident of divorce does not affect badly. It has implications on your children, finances, routine life, psychology, and even your behaviour. For a time you would feel caught in corridor where there is no way to go out.  

But if you sit peacefully and think, there can be some positive way out of this mess. Because once you are divorced then there are fewer chances for reunion. So it would be better to think about the conciliation and talk with your spouse freely and frankly. The start of a relationship from the beginning can not be ruled out at any point of time. 

Ultimately finding no reason to live together, if you have to walk on the thorny path of an unstoppable divorce, you should know about the things you are to go through in near future. There are some of the factors that could be very disappointing to know, but you should know it.