Are you wondering how you can go about getting a commitment? Are you ready for a relationship that means more? Are you looking for the serious relationship that takes you farther and longer? Now is the time to start working at getting a commitment.

Don't be desperate.

If you are waiting for his call and always sitting around waiting for him to come to your to do something, you are way too desperate. You need to make sure that you are happy being single so that a relationship adds to your life and isn't your life. Part of that will depend on your life.

Build up your life.

You don't want to depend on a man in order to have a life. You need to make sure that you are building up your life so that you don't seem desperate and so that he has a reason to make a commitment. If you are always there for you there is no reason he would need to make a commitment. Instead make sure you go out with family and friends, stick with your hobbies, and work at building your career.

Play the game.

If you continue on with your life, have been seeing him awhile, and have made it clear that you want a real relationship complete with a commitment from him, then you need to play the game. Get out there and start dating other guys. Let him know you are going on dates and that you are having fun. Don't rub it in his face and don't make him think you might pick one of those guys. Continue to let him know that you would rather have him to yourself, but make sure you don't do it in a way that puts a lot of pressure on him.

You can get the commitment you deserve by avoiding the desperate act and feel. Make him feel like you want him, but don't need him. Build your life up so that you have something without him. Finish by playing the game if need be. You can have him!