Do chubby girls have a chance at snagging a hot guy? If you are chubby should you resign yourself to a lonely life of solitude? Should you date if you are dieting or just wait until you get to your desired size? If you struggle with weight issues, and want to know how hot guys feel about chubby girls, keep reading.

There is good news and bad news when it comes to weight and relationships. The bad news is there are plenty of superficial people in the world who exclude others from their lives based on weight. Our society has created a very unrealistic ideal of what a woman's body should look like.

But you might be surprised to learn that in ancient cultures, pale, voluptuous women represented
the ideal beauty because they were signs of wealth and prosperity. Only peasant women had tanned skin from working in the fields and hence they were also thinner due to hard labor and lack of resources. How the times have changed! Now the ideal beauty is bronze and buff.

The good news is that there are plenty of great good looking guys who are attracted to women of all shapes and sizes. Even better, you are probably more attractive to a man than you realize. If you are a chubby girl, the key to attracting a hot guy is your attitude.

A good attitude starts with confidence. You have to stop listening to all the negative messages that bombard you every day. Get together with your girlfriends and try a simple and fun exercise that is guaranteed to build your confidence. Get some paper and put each woman's name on the top. Then pass the sheets around to everyone present and have them write a positive comment about the individual whose name is at the top of the page. You can restrict comments to just physical attributes or you can allow comments about both personality and physical beauty. In the end, each person gets the sheet with their name listing all their beautiful characteristics. It is always amazing to see how others perceive you and accept you much more than you accept yourself.

Confidence is enhanced when you wear clothes, makeup and hair that bring out your natural beauty. Trendy clothes are fun, but they are often designed for women who are super skinny. Stay away from overly popular trends and stick to classic designs that go from season to season and year to year. You can update these looks easily using sexy shoes, boots, belts, and other accessories.

Don't hide behind your makeup. Get some professional assistance at a makeup counter to help you choose the best colors for you but don't overdo it. Most men prefer a natural look from day to day, and a sexy vamped up look on special occasions.

Also, it's interesting to note that sociological studies show that men and women tend to pair up with someone of an equal level of attractiveness. This gives you a lot of options because most people fall into the average category and are therefore attracted to other people of average looks. This doesn't mean that men will ignore a supermodel, but it should give you confidence that as a chubby girl you can snag an attractive man.