Christian Marriage Counseling - Why Most Methods Don't Work

Have you and your spouse become that couple that you promised yourself you would never become before you got married? You know the couple we mean. That couple that's always bickering. The one that always seems to be frustrated with each other. The one who you used to look at and just know that one of them was probably having an affair.

Unfortunately, this kind of couple is the rule instead of the exception. In the Christian church, we have a higher than 50% divorce rate. It's obvious that whatever we've been doing up to now hasn't been working.

So what's wrong?

Why, despite all of the books that have been written, the sermons that have been delivered, and the time and energy that well-meaning counselors have spent trying to teach Christian couples how to have successful marriages, are we still finding it so difficult to have the kinds of relationships that God wants us to have?

We're going to get to that answer in just a second - and we promise that when you finally discover the simple truth that lies at the heart of every single successful Christian marriage, it's going to completely transform your relationship forever.

But let's not get ahead of ourselves. Yes, we're going to reveal where you can find a complete and free resource for turning your marriage around no matter how bad it is, but first let's talk about this for a minute.

The simple truth of the matter is this...

Traditional Christian marriage counseling just doesn't work.

But what's even worse, the years that we've spent teaching thousands of couples how to have outrageously happy marriages have proven that traditional marriage counseling makes it more likely that your marriage will fall apart.

We know that that's not going to be easy for a lot of people to hear. You've probably tried all of the traditional advice - the "wife must submit plan," the "wife respect the husband plan," maybe even the "husband is the servant leader plan." And still, it's not working.

Fourteen years ago, our own marriage was headed for divorce. And, probably like you, we were headed that way even though we tried to follow all of the traditional advice that we had been told had been laid down in the Bible. It wasn't until we learned the truth that we were able to save our marriage and become the outrageously happy couple that we are today.

Problem is, a lot of what passes as advice for Christian couples today has been misinterpreted. Many of the things that traditional Christian marriage counselors teach simply isn't right.

We're not saying that all of these so-called experts are willfully misinforming the church. Most of them, we're sure, actually do mean well. But the problem is that they're operating from faulty assumptions.