One of the biggest hurt in marriage is infidelity. Knowing your spouse being unfaithful to you has already tarnished the image of a good husband or wife. The trust and bond that was built over the time was as good as shattering into pieces of broken glasses. Out of 10 people, 9 will say out this once an affair was exposed. "I will not forgive you, let's divorce!" Can your marriage still be saved after infidelity? Is this considered the end of your marriage?

Although infidelity is quite a common reason that causes a marriage to fail but it does not mean it is the end of your marriage. If you are the person who is being unfaithful and is feeling regretful of what you have done, you should be questioning yourself how serious you want to keep this marriage going. Do you still love your spouse?

Many reasons can led to infidelity and what causes it to take place?

1) Husband or wife does not wants to have sex
2) Dominating partner
3) Lack of communication and understanding
4) Lack of care and concern that lead to emptiness inside
5) Low self esteem
6) Frequent fights and quarrel
7) Impulsive behavior brought by alcohol
8) Wife do not wish to give birth

These are some of the common reasons that can let an affair take place. Of course, it can also be other reasons. If you are sincere in repairing the hurt and pain that you have brought upon, the first thing that you have to do is to end the affair and find ways to regain the trust. However, all these require time, patience and sincerity.