It's completely understandable to envy "jerks" when it comes to getting women. Watching as these bad boys score all of the hottest women while you, the nice guy, get left with the scraps can be painful indeed. There are some things you need to know about what's really going on here, so pay attention to what I'm about to tell you.

Despite what it may look like, being a jerk does not equate to instant success with women. You will enjoy much more success by focusing on certain behaviors that you are almost certainly exhibiting that are actually repelling women. You see, trying to hard to be a "nice guy" usually just causes women to think that you are timid and uninteresting.

You can't expect to have rock-star success with women by acting like a completely uninspiring wimp. You wouldn't want to spend a lot of time getting to know somebody who was completely uninteresting to you, and hot women are the same way.

It doesn't seem like it makes much sense, but many men seem to think that being as boring as humanly possible is actually a good strategy when it comes to courting or seducing women! Despite lackluster results with this approach, I see these guys try again and again to bore women into liking them. I know that nice guys don't realize how boring they are being, but that's what it comes across as!

Ironically, once you start putting in a little effort to "be a jerk" with women, you'll start to realize that going a little overboard every now and then actually isn't being a jerk at all. What you're doing is being unique and exciting, something that every beautiful woman secretly craves. If you continue sucking up to women and worshiping the ground that they walk on, you'll get stuck with the ugly ones time and time again!

Face it, women are sick and tired of being treated like celebrities just for being beautiful. They want to be challenged and entertained like the rest of us. They want to know what's REALLY on your mind. They don't want some sugar-coated reality made for princesses where she never gets to hear what's really on your mind or what you really think of her or her behavior.

You want to know what the funny thing is about all this? If you understand the actual reasons that women love jerks, then you won't have to actually be a jerk if you don't want to be one. If you know how to be refreshing and entertaining, you can be as nice or as mean as you want to be, and still get with the kind of women that you want to. Don't believe society's hype about nice guys!

Whether you're a nice guy or a jerk really isn't the issue. Just remember what women are really attracted to, and you will attract them. It isn't rocket science; it really is that simple.