Are you asking yourself "can I make up with my ex girlfriend?" If so, then you must have a deep love for you ex girlfriend and are willing to do what ever it takes to get her back. The good news is that there is always a possibility. I recently read the magic of making up and there is just so much good information in that book to discuss here. But I do have some basic suggestions that may be able to help you heal your friendship with your ex girlfriend and start rebuilding the passion in your relationship.

• Do not run to your ex girlfriend asking for forgiveness. If you did this, you would be giving up any upper hand in the relationship and she will know that she can control you like a puppet on a string.

• Use this time apart to rebuild yourself. You are going to want her to see you in a new light. Work on your personal appearing and any personality traits that you think will attract her back to you.

• Show you ex girlfriend that you are truly a catch. Go out with your friends to have fun and meet new girls. You are not looking for anything serious. You are just marketing yourself. Your ex girlfriend will see that other women are attracted to you and become jealous.

• If she is not affected by the above tips, then work with her to mend your friendship. Put the romance on the back burner and work on being a good friend to her. Friendships have a tendency to develop into romantic relationships.