So now, after having lost what you already had, you want to attract your ex back into your life? How pathetic is that? But don't worry, it always happens after a breakup. All you need to do is stop acting like a loser and do something about it. Here is how you can attract your ex back into your life...

Order your life! This is the time to bring it back on track...
For starters, you can get your life back in order, follow your usual routine and start looking like you're enjoying every day and having fun. Dress smart and turn on the charm.

Raise the bar...The higher the standards the better your chances will be...
Flaunt your newfound personality in front of you ex. Once your ex finds that you're no longer suffering, and actually looking better than before, it induces a reverse reaction where your ex feels like a loser, and wants you back. Raise the bar by adapting a new personality and basically keep your head held high.

Jealousy and envy...Sneaky yet effective tricks...
To hasten the reaction, start hitting on your ex's friends. So long as you don't take it too far and the flirting or dating doesn't get serious, it'll burn your ex up but not so bad that your ex steps aside. It's like a slow boil. Your ex will become envious that his/her friends are paying attention to you, and then your ex will just plain become jealous.

Play hard to get...
Keep it simmering, and your ex won't be able to bear it and will do something to stop the torment. The only thing that can be done to stop such a situation is for you two to get back together. If you want to keep things spicy, simply play hard to get. Don't answer your ex's calls or texts right away, and cut calls short.

Winning over the friends...
If you think the situation is dicey and you need help, bring in some close friends and family. Show them that you're not as bad as your ex makes it out to be. Instead of trying to win back your ex, win the friends and family. When one by one, they start singing your praises, your ex will have to rethink the whole breakup, and that's your chance to swoop in and close the deal.

Get out of that comfort zone...
You could also take things a lot more seriously, and give up your own lifestyle - friends, neighborhood, job, etc., and show your ex that you're willing to come out of your comfort zone. Let your ex know that you're willing to dump everyone and everything else, in return for love.

That kind of commitment takes a lot of courage, and if you can prove it, then your ex has no choice except to take you in again.