Did you beg, plead or threaten your ex to come back to you? If yes! Then let me assure you that you have done a great job at further pushing your ex away. You see as long as your ex knows you are desperate...This will always work against you.

In the midst of extreme breakup pain...Most people can't make up their mind on what they should do and often end up doing everything they shouldn't be doing thinking it will bring their ex back.

There are certain things which when done in a systematic fashion will easily get your ex back into your life. Read on to discover what these are before it's too late...

1- The breakup was actually a blessing for you - Yup! You read it right...You might be thinking what? You are telling me this breakup is a blessing when it's the worst ever thing which has ever happened to me?

Well relax! You don't actually have to agree with this but this is exactly what you have to pretend in front of your ex. Instead of crying or sobbing over the whole scene you should act as if the breakup was a good thing and now you are doing better than ever.

2- Let your ex know that a lot of exciting things have been happening in your life after the breakup - And this will make your ex re-think the whole situation. He/she will start thinking why is it that all of a sudden you are having all this fun and all these exciting things are happening around you?

You see this will make them think that maybe you weren't happy in their company and now you are having way more than you had in the relationship. This will make them feel rejected.

3- Drop hints but don't tell your ex exactly what's going on - This can truly burn your ex with immense amounts of curiosity and urges to want you back. When you let your ex know that a lot of exciting things are happening in your life at the present moment yet do not tell them exactly what's going on.

Rather give them small hints and let them guess the rest. For example- The next time you talk to your ex say something along the lines of-

You know what? A lot of exciting things are going on in my life at the moment. Thank you so much. You were right about the breakup. Will tell you about it some other time.

And then watch your ex burn with extreme jealousy and at the same time extra willingness to get back with you.

So why does this all work so well?

Well simply because after the breakup your ex would expect you to act all desperate...needy etc but here you are doing the exact opposite of it. You are doing something your ex would never expect.

And this is the reason why it would work so well.