When it comes to getting a woman sexually aroused, most guys do a terrible job. It has everything to do with their approach. Over the past few years, I've been in a situation where hundreds of guys have asked me about the most effective ways to getting a woman sexually aroused.

So let's discuss how to go about it the right way, because repeating the same mistakes can result in a failed relationship, infidelity, or an overall boring sex life.

Here's what typically happens.

The guy becomes aware that he's in the mood. Then, he decides to ask her if she wants to "do it" as if it's an idea.

Of course, this isn't the same as doing psychologically-proven techniques that get her biologically prepared for love-making.

The goal isn't to ask your not-in-the-mood woman to agree to have sex with you.

The goal is to get her turned on.

Below you will discover a powerful, but simple approach to getting her in the mood.

Method #1: Make Her Feel Sexy

Making your partner feel "sexy" is not only effective for getting her prepared for sex, it's something you should do because it makes her feel good.

Nothing feels greater to a woman than knowing that the love of her life sees her as being sexually appealing.

As far as it being an effective tool for love-making, just understand that there is a reason why many women can get horny just by putting on something sexy and looking in the mirror.

The good news is with a simple compliment and a little creativity, you can accomplish the task in a matter of seconds.

However, you should avoid cliché comments like "you look sexy, today".

Although, something like that could do the trick, you can create 77 times the impact by crafting your compliment the right way.

For example, you could say:

"You know what I think is sexy about you? You have the perfect smile. You care about others. You have the best toes in the world. And you have a sexy way of walking. When I think about those things about you, it drives me crazy."

A good "sexy compliment" will include things that she believes, comments about her personality and comments about her physical appearance.

It will also make her blush uncontrollably.

So the next time you're in the mood, spend an hour or two making her feel really sexy and special.