The first step in how to become romance is a decision.

The decision to use your imagination to create lasting happiness, beauty and fun where ever you go, to all you come into contact with.

Be it the most awesome beauty, charming lady or the garbage man. Romance is for the rich and the poor alike, it is for all genders and all ages. Romance is charm with a consciousness that every action, every response and every word counts.

Romance is focused on creating and giving, without the intention to receive in return, but return comes automatically and in vast amounts, then romance receives openly and joyously.

Step two:

Start noticing romance in other people's actions, romance is slightly shy and you will find it in the detail.

You will recognize romance in the tone of a voice, it carries gentleness and care within it and is not totally based on seduction, and if you listen carefully you will hear the difference.

Romance show in your eyes when you speak to people or touch them it's a silent language most of the time. They will know that they can trust and believe in you because you are focused on lasting happiness and joy, and not on a moment of fun or instant gratification. People crave that because it is so rare.

You will find romance in how everyday stuff is prepared and presented. A sandwich, a cup of coffee, in a sales letter it is in how you pick up your doggies poo.

Romance is relaxed and never posed it very natural it is like breathing. Romance is how you look at the world together and at each other.

Romance is an attitude that creates glorious moments worthy of remembering out of the simplest everyday happenings, in return for your attentiveness you get a life worth having.

Step Three

Now that you can recognize romance start implementing it in all you do say and think.

Make a list of five tedious tasks you have been postponing, like washing your car, or buying a gift for someone and you don't know what to buy or how to wrap it. Maybe you must right a sales letter or make a presentation for your company. Is it possible that you want to tell someone that you love them but you don't know how to?

This is where the fun starts, pick the one that scares you the least from your list and think "romance-it" if you have decided to pick washing your car, collect everything you need for your task at hand and as you get it together focus on the words romance-it, now start washing your car and repeat the words romance-it, soon you will notice your change of attitude to the extend that you will start having fun, lose track of time and pay a lot of attention to the detail.

When you are done, you will feel more energized you will feel proud of yourself, not because the car is clean but because of how you did it.

Romance is about how you do things not what you do. As you complete your projects you will notice a new kind of confidence grow inside you that has nothing to do with how you look or with what you have. It has everything to do with the fact that you are becoming Romance.

Overall tips

Relax as much as possible. The more you practice romance the more natural it will become. Romance is part of your soul, not all people choose to develop it. Romance has been waiting for you to express it in as many ways as possible and as often as you can. Romance is for everyone, that includes your children, friends, family and even pets each group must receive their own quantity of Romance.

Overall Warnings

It might feel a little bitty awkward at first but persist and you will succeed. If your partner looks surprised or astonished at the new you let that inspire you to greater heights. If your friends tease you, they are probably just jealous and secretly wish they could be like you. Prepare for lots of love, affection, attention and support from the majority of people you come into contact with, please don't be overwhelmed and stop. Fun and happiness will fill your days, don't get scared, especially if you are not use to giving and receiving a lot of happiness.

Romance is addictive to both the giver and the receiver.